For the "Russian Orthodox Church Outside Russia" to still be considered rationally "Russian," she must pursue some kind of relationship with the Moscow Patriarchate. The project of this relationship ought to be prayerfully undertaken by monks, dignitaries, lay people, and scholars on both sides. Otherwise, "Russian Orthodox Church of America" might be more appropriate, in which case dialog and concilliar union with the OCA ought to be carefully considered every year until that particular union were to transpire -- which might not be such a bad idea considering the number of WASP convert laity and clergy[!] in ROCOR.
Giambattista Vico wrote that delicately tempered people when well versed in the minute details of a thing often become finicky in their thinking and therefore ought not be trusted with the making of important decisions, due to their characteristic aversion to the pursuit of expediency and resolution.
In the end, will matter who had been most vapid, who could prove to be the most white-blooded and book addicted, or who had the strongest nostalgia for the past? Theodora and I have not as yet been blessed with children, but I am, at this time, very uncomfortable with the idea of raising children in the ROCOR amidst all this polemic and convulsion, wars and rumors of wars.
Sincerely,
Joseph