I'm not sure if this is the right forum or not, but, I'd like some advice and feedback--especially from anyone here who might be a monk/nun or have experience in monasticism. Here's some background. I'm a 17 year old Mexican male with a very Scholastic/rationalist mind, and, I converted to Orthodoxy two years ago against the wishes of my parents who are Evangelical Protestants. And, monasticism seems really appealing to me, and is something that I've considered becoming once I reach adulthood. Ever since I was a kid I've always been extremely introverted, distant, and solitary. I like being away from the world and being alone. I feel like I could reach my full spiritual potential whenever I am alone. I love contemplating on religious matters and praying in solitude by myself or maybe with a few of my closest friends. The thought of joining a skete with a couple other monks is a really attractive thought to me. And, I know that there is MUCH more to monasticism than just getting to be isolated from the world and live in solitude, but, I am up to the challenges I think. I've read the literature such as Way of the Ascetic and Sayings of the Desert Fathers and even with all the hardships, I'd much rather toil living a monastic life than to toil living a married life in the world like everyone else. In fact, that's another motivation for me. The thought of being married, having a family and living like every other average joe seems MISERABLE to me. I don't enjoy raising children (since I've practically been raising my younger siblings all my life), and I don't want to get married. I'd much rather be alone. I've only had one girlfriend before and I really disliked it. Monasticism seems perfect to me. Plus, all of my greatest role models like St. Gregory the Theologian and St. Augustine of Hippos were monastics; I want to be just like them and live a life that's at least somewhat comparable to them. Plus, I've always wanted a pony-tail
However, as you already know, my parents really aren't too happy with my conversion to Orthodoxy, seeing that they are Evangelical Protestants. And the thought of me becoming a monk is something they don't like even more. I privately talked to my mom about it a few weeks ago and when I told her I wanted to be a monk, she looked at me as if I had lobsters crawling out of my ears. It really blew her back and caught her off guard. She was more sad than angry, and I could see the sorrow in her eyes. She doesn't want me to become a monk because she wants grandchildren and a daughter-in-law from me, and because she thinks it's "unhealthy" for a man to not have a wife and kids. You know, the typical Evangelical/Islam anti-monasticism slander. If my mom reacted this negatively toward it, I imagine that my dad would react even more negatively, knowing him. So what should I do? Monasticism really fits into my personality, and I don't want to ever get married or have a family. But, my parents wouldn't approve of it at all. And how do I know if monasticism is really right for me, or if I am looking to it for the wrong reasons? I am very introverted and detached, so it is possible that part of the reason why I'm attracted to monasticism is because it feeds my shyness.