I went to look at the Rocana website to see that link mentioned when I came across the obituary of "Ija Dimitievna".
The minute I saw that she was born in Latvia, I knew it could only be Ija Schmit, wife of Harvey Schmit. These two were long time supporters of the St John of San Francisco parish in South San Francisco, which used to belong to RTOC. Then it went with Bp Stefan to "Rocana".
This is actually somewhat major news. One of the various reasons is because Ija was the sister of Fr Herman Podmoshensky and as far as I heard, was a supporter of his missionary work.
So it could not have been she who wanted her last name left off. Apparently the Rocana staff were leery to have anyone make the connection betwen their parishioner and the controversial Fr Herman of Platina.
The text of the announcement reads :
"On September 22, 2018 at 5:00 PM, Ija Dmitriyevna reposed at the age of 82. Ija Dmitriyevna was born in Latvia and was an amazing person of deep faith and a great Russian heart. We express our condolences to her spouse, the warden of the Church of St. John of Shanghai and San Francisco Foma Petrovich, as well as to her relatives and those for whom the deceased was dear."
http://rocana.org/page/home.en/660
Then, I looked at the parish website and Harvey Schmit's name is no longer listed on there as the poster of news. It surely is he that the Rocana editors referred to as "Foma Petrovich", for his father's name must have been Peter.
He is an American convert to Orthodoxy of decades, originally of German Catholic background. Harvey and Ija are/were very dedicated to the ideals of the Old Rocor and notably, they were fervent supporters of the Russian Monarchy.
Ija Schmit was active in the Ladies of the Russian Nobility [not exact name of the organization but something like that]. The two of them deserve far more credit than this truncated obituary ! I will post a little more, which perhaps could go into a public forum ?
That's up to Maria.
Right now, I am pointing out the strange evasive way the obituary, so minimal in content anyway, was worded.
Their daughter Nina, who is married to the owner of a venerable Orthodox bookstore, was not even mentioned specifically ! This employment of vague speech is always a red flag.