The Affliction of Scrupulosity

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The Affliction of Scrupulosity

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Question: What is scrupulosity, who suffers from it, what is its cure, and is it a problem among TOC believers?

[The following is simply my own surmising about this.]

I certainly do agree and believe that there is such a thing as scrupulosity and that it is a condition that affects many religiously inclined folk. I think it mainly stems from a distorted view of ourselves and God, resulting is a fear of sin that is not truly according to God's will, and of a sense of guilt that is ill-founded. If one imagines one is guilty of something that is not, in fact a sin, then one will never be free of it. People who suffer from scrupulosity are people who cannot find relief from their troubled consciences through the normal channels of grace; namely, through confession, obediently fulfilling epitemias, and Holy Communion. The reason for this, at least in part, is because they seek forgiveness from something that is not a sin. Hence, the reasons for being troubled in conscience are rooted not in a real sin, and so they cannot find relief in absolution at confession. What in much more effective it to discover where our thinking has gone awry. Correcting that will cut off the erroneous thoughts that plague the mind and soul.

I think that Scrupulosity is far more common among Protestant fundamentalists, and traditional Roman Catholics who take their religion seriously. The twisted ideas of the Western Christian Confessions are what magnify such a condition in people. Of course, scrupulosity assumes or is predicated upon the fact that the person in question already has a sensitive conscience. Someone who is not very sensitive and is rather unconcerned about sin, they are not going to be suffering from this condition. Rather they are in need of a different cure for a different ailment. Such people often can appear more well adjusted in life, though they are not sufficiently conscientious.

Some people believe that the Western notions of menial, venial, mortal sin, and that the struggle to hairsplit between those which are lesser and not perilous to the soul and those which are, is what contributes to this condition of scrupulosity. I do not know. What I do know is that if we follow the teachings of the Holy Fathers, the lives of the saints, participate regulary and with seriousness in the Divine Mysteries, then with the course of time and consistent practise of these things, the scrupulosity within us will depart as old erroneous thoughts and ideas are washed away and replaced by Orthodox ones. I doubt that for most people there is any "quick fix" epiphany.

Is scrupulosity a trait of many TOC members? I definitely do not see that as being the case. I have travelled all over the world and met TOC believers in Eastern Europe, Greece, Athos, America, and Canada. None of them seems to suffer from the scrupulosity of the Western Confessions. I have seen new converts into Orthodoxy (both World Orthodoxy and TOCs) and they can sometimes be suffering from this for some years into their Orthodox life. However, it seems extremely rare to me among those raised from birth in Orthodoxy. I do not know if the HOCNA believers have that problem. I have never really had any contact with any Panteleimonites; and if they are suffering from this, perhaps the origin of the erroneous thought patterns are rooted in a different error than the Western Confessions.

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Wow. Well written!

Now I understand why there has been such an uproar among the World Orthodoxy Orthodox Christian Laity (OCL) about parishioners seeking confessors from among the hieromonks in Orthodox Monasteries such as St. Anthony Monastery in Arizona. I have heard it said that when lay people go to confession to elders, particularly to Elder Ephraim or to other abbots, then sometimes these members of the laity begin to act like quasi-monks and develop scrupulosity because they feel that they must constantly ask for blessings (permissions to think, speak, pray, or act in a particular way), but the monastic elders are not everywhere present, nor are these lay people living at the monastery. So, these people become very scrupulous because they do not have ready access to their hieromonk, and then feel that they are committing sins because they are not asking for blessings before acting or praying. Sometimes, the more contact these laity have with their chosen elder, the more dependent and ill they seem to become.

From what I have read, scrupulosity seems to be related to the anxiety-related obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Perhaps that is why people who are mentally ill become so dependent on their modernistic and humanistic mental health professionals.

This would have parallels to HOCNA members who were largely dependent on the advice of Elder Panteleimon, who recently admitted to abusing monks. In fact, the whole set up of HOCNA was more like a pseudo-monastic community rather than an Orthodox jurisdiction.

Incidentally, there are several people from HOCNA who have been responding to News From The Underground (NFTU) blogs lately. If you read their comments, these members of HOCNA are sounding more and more scrupulous and paranoid now that Elder Panteleimon has been removed from the Priesthood and has been sent away from Holy Transfiguration Monastery (HTM). They really need our prayers. Lord have mercy.

Here are some of the weird HOCNA comments that reflect this paranoia at NFTU:
http://nftu.net/hocna-75-joined-goc-kal ... /#comments

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Yes, the amount of control, the degree of obedience that is demanded of lay folk by the followers of the Ephraimites is truly illigitimate and perverted. And yes, they are demanding nothing be done without their blessings even upon their spiritual children who are hundreds of miles away and when they call the monastery to talk to the elder himself (or someone they have blessed the follower to ask in lieu of the elder if he is unavailable) they discover repeatedly he (and his alternate confessor) are not available and so they are trapped in fear of disobedience and yet they have to make a decision and cannot put their lives on hold. Yet they do not have a blessing to act on their own or make a decision without a blessing, In fact they dont even have a blessing to consult their parish priest!!! They would have to confess it if they did instead of going only on their guidance. They are truly delusional. If HOCNA is run anything like that, then they would likely be included on the list of scrupulosity caused by "elder abuse" I mean spiritual abuse by their elder. There is a good book called, The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse. Worth reading.

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Yes, the amount of control, the degree of obedience that is demanded of lay folk by the followers of the Ephraimites is truly illigitimate and perverted. And yes, they are demanding nothing be done without their blessings even upon their spiritual children who are hundreds of miles away and when they call the monastery to talk to the elder himself (or someone they have blessed the follower to ask in lieu of the elder if he is unavailable) they discover repeatedly he (and his alternate confessor) are not available and so they are trapped in fear of disobedience and yet they have to make a decision and cannot put their lives on hold. Yet they do not have a blessing to act on their own or make a decision without a blessing, In fact they dont even have a blessing to consult their parish priest!!! They would have to confess it if they did instead of going only on their guidance. They are truly delusional. If HOCNA is run anything like that, then they would likely be included on the list of scrupulosity caused by "elder abuse" I mean spiritual abuse by their elder. There is a good book called, The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse. Worth reading.

Who wrote The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse?

Does this link to Amazon contain the correct information about the authors and publication date?
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_ ... tual+Abuse

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Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse, The: Recognizing and Escaping Spiritual Manipulation and False Spiritual Authority Within the Church [Paperback]
David Johnson (Author), Jeff VanVonderen (Author)

yes this is the very same book.

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Icxypion wrote:

Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse, The: Recognizing and Escaping Spiritual Manipulation and False Spiritual Authority Within the Church [Paperback]
David Johnson (Author), Jeff VanVonderen (Author)

yes this is the very same book.

When I went to Amazon and checked out the biography of the authors, I found that they are protestants and part of the Church of the Open Bible. Is there any book written by an Orthodox Priest on the subject of spiritual abuse and/or scrupulosity?

Father Thomas Hopko of the OCA mentioned that scrupulosity is found in converts to Orthodoxy, and that it is a spiritual illness rooted in lack of faith, hope, and love. Perfect love will cast out this morbid fear of scrupulosity.

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Yes, they are protestants, but what they describe and expose to the light of sanity are the cycles of victimisation, submission, abuse that take place between typical personality types in these abusive relationships. There is a definite common pattern here, and it makes no difference between which denomination or Church it is manifested in. It helps victims identify their unhealthy spiritual relationships and avoid falling into them anymore. I found that book very helpful in identifying false spiritual obligation and spiritual authority claimed by pastors or spiritual leaders over their followers, and in identifying God-honouring boundaries or limits on the obedience that we are required to give spiritual leaders, and when are they overstepping their bounds as leaders in what they demand of us. Elder Ephrem tells married couples to abstain from marital relations if they are not planning to have children or are past childbearing age. He has destroyed marriages by commanding wives to deprive their husbands their conjugal rights on the aforementioned basis. Unbelievable!

I don't know of any truly Orthodox book on this subject of any depth. There was an article by defrocked dcn. Lazar (Lev) Puhalo (real name, Ron Haler) about the cult of elders, but I absolutely don't recommend anything by him. In his early years when he was still in ROCOR he did write some good articles on some topics. But to avoid any contagion of heresy or perversion, it is better to dump all his writings into the waste-bin of forgotten history.

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