Joe,
I am not disobeying my spiritual father as he did not share my quasi sedevacantist views (sh. don't tell anyone its a secret ) sort a cut me loose. I am still searching for a sedevacantist priest that is close enough to serve as my confessor (my old one I went to once a month and he was 200 miles away). I may go to the CMRI Bishop that has a chapel up in Plainville.
Well, as far as I know, the CMRI folks are not "quasi" sedevecantists - they are undoubtedly sedevecantists.
What is necessary for a Mass (would the term "Missa" be better for you? I know I like it better but maybe that's just my opinions that Latin always outranks English) to have grace (to use your terminology) is for it to one, contain the actual canon as approved by the Church and two, if nothing else to have the words "This is My Body...." "This is My Blood, shed for you and for MANY" (Pro Multis not Pro Omnis as the Novus ordites pray).
The problem I have with this position, is the one OOD brought up - it's a mechanistic reduction of the sacraments into magical rites, by which the proper invocation gets the right result. While I obviously believe following Holy Tradition is important in the celebration of liturgical acts, this exoteric "validity" is only half the story.
And there is also a theological position that heretics and those incommunion with heretics loose the ability to form the intention necessary for the confecting of any Sacrament.
While I find that interesting, it sounds rather modern, at least for the RCC. Well before Vatican II, your church was accepting the sacraments of certain other groups as is (in particular baptisms and ordinations, if the latter were from the "Old Catholics" or those who had apostacized from the Orthodox Church.)
It is indeed sad when the Anglican Book of Common Prayer is closer to the real Catholic Mass (The Mass of St. Gregory, the Mass of the Ages, the Mass for which teh Martyrs (of the reformation) died) than is the Novus Ordo service.
"Mass of the Ages"? Maybe "Mass of the Carolingian-Latins, and then some", but I think you're a little misguided if you don't believe the "Tridentine" Missal has experienced significant developments at several points in history.
PS: my former spiritual father also considers feeneyites to be heretics, and therefore I now consider him to be a heretic.
According to the pre-Vat II Popes, Feeney was "wrong". This dispute doesn't really matter to me, in so far as it's one taking place outside of the Church, but I do find it interesting that Feeney was censored by his own archbishop, with the oversight of the much lauded (by RC traditionalists) Pius XII. Even the Syllabus says that a "good hope" cannot be entertained for the salvation of those "outside of the Church" - not that there is "no hope" (indeed, had this been the meaning of Pius IX, the text would have been so worded - that it wasn't, was intentional.)
What I find interesting about the whole "traditional RC" dillemma, is it's paradox - you take exception to the Pope (and if you're a sedevecantist, you've determined the modern Popes are "heretics" by your lights), yet one of the bullwarks of the RC schism, is the idea that the Popes are subject to no one, save God, and cannot be judged by anyone, save God. As such, I find it hard to fathom how one buying such an idea, can turn around and judge the "Vicar of Christ" to be a heretic, or withold obedience from him - such "judgements" are impossible to make, within the RC paradigm. While RC liberals disgust me (as do their "right wing liberal" counterparts in the Novus Ordo, who inadvertantly helped me understand RCism to be an incredible fraud which asserts human sovereignty over that of Christ's), they do have a point about mindless obedience - which groups like the SSPX, or the various sedevecantist groups, are witholding.
I feel bad for you guys (and this is close to home, as I have family who are deeply involved with the SSPX, including a brother and a close friend who are going to their seminary in the U.S.), if only because I think your hearts are in the right place, but you're fighting for a lost cause. The problems of Catholicism, the spirit of innovation, did not begin at Vatican II, but 1000 plus years before this.
Seraphim