Theodora Elizabeth wrote:I'd appreciate some suggestions on how I could handle the following situation:
My work has cook-outs, always on Fridays, once a month during the summer.
Should I: not participate, bring veggie hot dogs (which I hate) or just nibble on the side dishes (chips *& salsa, salad) I know are fasting?
Thanks,
Theodora Elizabeth
From sayings of the desert fathers:
There was a man who was leading an ascetic life and not eating bread. He went to visit an old man. It happened that pilgrims also dropped by, and the old man fixed a modest meal for them. When they sat together to eat, the brother who was fasting picked up a single soaked pea and chewed it. When they arose from the table, the old man took the brother aside and said: "Brother, when you go to visit somewhere, do not display your way of life, but if you want to keep to it, stay in your cell and never come out." He accepted what the old man said, and after that behaved like the others whenever he met with them. We are reminded here that fasting must be done in secret, not before others, as the Lord has said: "But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face; that thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly." --St. Matthew 6:17-18