How are lay Orthodox Christians supposed to bless with the Sign of the Cross? In prayer books, I have read that we are encouraged to bless our bed/pillow before sleep with the Sign of the Cross or with our neck cross. Parents are to bless their children with the Sign of the Cross.
Do we bless like the clergy: up, down, left, right towards the one blessed or we make the Sign of the Cross like we are blessing ourselves: up, down, right, left?
Hand position?